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Part  3 of 3

Study on Modesty
Part 3 of
3
By Wayne McKamie

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The Christian Informer
November  2005


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WHAT ABOUT WOMEN WEARING PANTS?

We might as well raise this question, “What about women wearing pants?”  First of all let me say, nobody has ever asked me that question.  But if a person came up to me and said, “I want to know what you think.  I’m going to wear pants or I’m going to wear a mini skirt.”  I would probably say, “Go ahead and do as you please,” because that is what they will do anyway.  The only justification that I have heard for wearing pants is that they are better and more modest than a mini skirt.  But, brother, that is not the only alternative!  We don’t have to be reduced to either of those two things!

 
If a conscientious, wholesome, godly Christian woman–a person who wants to maintain the best possible influence–asked me if she should wear pants, I would say, “No, don’t wear them.”  There are too many things that should concern you.  I don’t believe you can go that route if you really study these things for yourself.  I don’t believe your prayerful attitude in approaching God about this matter will let you put them on and wear them without a doubt in your mind.  That doubt is bound to be there (Romans 14:22,23).
 
I have some other objections.  Pants reflect the unisex movement that now exists in our world.  If you think I have just conjured this up, look it up in Compton’s Encyclopedia Yearbook.  They had it under, no less than, the heading, “The Pantsuit – Hemline Controversy” and that is page 249.  Listen to what it says, “Paris Couturier Jacques Escorel states that the identification of the sexes in terms of clothes will become a thing of the past.”  That is current.  He is talking about NOW.
 
He goes on to explain that he designed an identical tunic and pants for father and mother and child and labeled them unisex clothing.  He said, “We will erase the lines that exist between male and female.”  Hand in hand with this again is the age old problem of homosexuality.  It is a huge problem today.  These people are saying that is their goal.  Those goals are an abomination in the sight of God.  Men with long hair and jewelry and women with short hair and pants just don’t fit the picture I get when I read and study my Bible.
 
Another reason I am opposed to pants is because they reflect the influence of the woman’s radical liberation movement.  This movement highly objects to any distinction between a man and a woman.  They are very dedicated to the proposition of erasing masculine and feminine roles.  They reject the fact that woman is to be “discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands,” (Titus 2:5).
 
I propose that the so-called liberation movement isn’t a thing in the world but an extension of a movement that began during the Second World War when women put on slacks, took a cigarette in one hand, a cocktail in the other and began using curses and obscenities.  I think this should bother us.  It bothers me for such people to stand flagrantly crying, “I’m free.  I’m liberated in mind, body and spirit.  I’ve come a long way!”  They sure have!  They’ve come a long way!  I believe Christian women should want to avoid any appearance of sympathy with that kind of thing.
 
Pants [for women] encourage a situation that we cannot control.  In the area in which I live there are jobs that you, as a woman wearing pants, could not hold.  You would not be allowed to teach in some schools.  I wanted to know the school board’s reason for this.  They said they did not want their teachers looking like a bunch of men.  There is another school in our area that does not allow its girls to wear pants to school.  Their reason?  They said, “We cannot handle or control the situation.  No way!”
 
Let me tell you what they mean if you feel I’m being too rigid and too straightlaced about the whole thing.  Once you allow this in your home and your life (and it’s up to you) I guarantee, you will live to see people wearing any and everything that may be called “pants.”  It began with the pantsuits which could be fairly decent looking, but it didn’t last long.  You will live to see things being worn that will make you despise the day you ever started.  You are going to deal with things like, “What shape are you talking about?  How tight can they be, sir?  Could we cut these pants off and wear them as shorts?”  Now, deal with that one!  Then we are going to wrestle with this question, “If pants constitute modest apparel, we can wear them to worship, can’t we?”
 
Furthermore, we are going to deal with immodest posture and immodest habits.  We are going to deal with a coarser, and more boisterous, less feminine disposition.  I’ve seen it happen.  Why dress in such a manner that thousands in the religious world among the Amish, Mennonites and other “plain sects” as they are called, would not recognize you as a Christian.  This is something that has long bothered me.  I am willing for people to dress better than we dress....  I am willing for them to have to have longer cars than we have....  But I am not willing for them to live better lives than we live.  This bothers me.  There are thousands of these people who would reject you and say, “You are not a Christian!”
 
Satan is very crafty.  For instance, on the subject of dancing, about the time you convince someone that the intimate embrace on the dance floor is not right, what does Satan do?  He comes up with a dance that doesn’t involve any embrace at all!  Of course, he doesn’t want you to discuss the indecent movements, he just wants to move your mind to something else.  When you apply this to the indecent exposure of a mini-fashion, then he comes up with pants.  As a Christian individual, please hold off just a little bit and take a look before you grab the latest fashion that comes along.  Take a look at it and see what Satan is leading you to next.  We are dealing with a mastermind, the genius of this world.
 
“Let your moderation be known to all men,” (Philippians 4:5).  Here is a passage which brings us back where we need to be.  Remember, this is our manifesto–“Ye also, as lively stones, are built up a spiritual house, an holy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices, acceptable to God by Jesus Christ...  But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvelous light: Which in time past were not a people, but are now the people of God: which had not obtained mercy, but now have obtained mercy.  Dearly beloved, I beseech you as strangers and pilgrims, abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul;  Having your conversation honest among the Gentiles: that, whereas they speak against you as evildoers, they may by your good works, which they shall behold, glorify God in the day of visitation,”(1 Peter 2:5 and 9-12).

Wayne McKamie

[These articles include all of Brother McKamie's study on modesty.  Free copies of the study may be obtained by contacting Brother George Hogland, P.O. Box 1018, Lubbock, TX 79401.]
 

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WHAT PART DOES THE HOLY SPIRIT PLAY IN SALVATION?
 
Salvation is “Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost” (Titus 3:5).  The Holy Spirit has a definite part in the salvation of man, and it would help those who would be saved to know how the Spirit operates in the conviction and conversion of the sinner.  Many think of the operation of the Spirit as something mysterious and incomprehensible, and wait for the miraculous entrance of the Spirit into their heart to regenerate them.
 
To understand the work of the Holy Spirit, we need to ascertain what His dwelling place is and medium through which He operates.

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RECIPE FOR A HAPPY HOME
By Miles King
 
FIRST, GET OUT the utensils.  You need one husband, one wife, and children to suit yourselves.  Next, cream one cup of love until it is fluffy and mellow.  Add one-half cup of tears and hardships and stir gently.  Whip in a cup of joy; when smooth add one teaspoon of thoughtfulness, heartfelt tenderness, and sympathy.  Add one cup of ambition with two cups of Christianity.  Bake in a moderate oven, top with kindness, and serve repeatedly.  [Author unknown].
 
There are wonderful qualities found in this recipe.  And there are some Christian qualities.  These principles would be what we are striving for in our homes today.  A recipe like this including your Bible reading and prayer will help build a Christian home.
 
Haven’t we heard this saying so many times—“There is no place like home.”  This is a very true statement.  Sure we want our homes to be pleasant and inviting.  At the same time, we should be concerned with this question: “Is my home a Christian home?”
 
All members of the family should join hands with having a household in which the Lord would be pleased.  Parents will want to talk and live an example before their children, deserving respect.  And these young people are taught to be aware of their responsibilities—“home sweet home.”
 
First, we all know and would agree that a mother’s influence is keenly felt in the home.  Mother's work, the greatest in the world, is bringing up the children, rearing them to be godly and Christ-like.  We can never minimize her role in the family; her love and her influence will long be remembered.
 
Mothers, you are to be “keepers at home”... that they “may teach the younger women to be sober to love their husbands, to love their children, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” (Titus 2:4-5).
 
Please read Proverbs 31:10-31.  As you read you will see a woman who fears the Lord; she is interested in her family’s “physical welfare”.  This good mother also had the trust and respect of her husband, as well as the respect of her children.  Isn’t this a very good example for mothers today?
 
Now please read about the “man of the house”.  Our fathers are to take the lead in the spiritual development of the children.  They can be a great help to the mothers with Bible reading and prayer.  “And ye fathers provoke not your children to wrath; but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).
 
I once read a story about a young boy who wanted to attend some entertainment in the community which his dad did not approve of.  It was the wrong kind of activity and the wrong crowd.  Instead of fussing with the boy, “laying down the law” that he could not go, this wise father spent a good bit of time and money having some entertainment at their farm instead, which was more interesting and outstanding than the other event.  I don’t remember if it was a “cookout” or if they played volleyball — but whatever, it was some good wholesome entertainment whereas the other was questionable.  This showed a father’s love!
 
Last, but not least, there are the children with their responsibilities.  They are to: first, obey their parents, and second, honor their parents.  Please read Ephesians 6:1-3.  Children remember this... we want you to be “Christ–like.”  Jesus at the age of 12 was subject to his parents.  He “went down with them, and came to Nazareth and was subject unto them” (Luke 2:51).
 
Please, let’s see the importance of all members of the family cooperating having a Christian home!
  Miles King
  8586 Wilderness Trl
  Scotland, AR 72141

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